Thursday, 21 July 2011

personality development


Before you board on a career or learn something new, it is essential to have a good look at yourself. We often hear about personality and other issues. What exactly is an outward appearance comes from the inner confidence. Personality is about intellect, speaking, writing, communication and essentially a gist of your inner self. It is good to learn something new but copying your role model will just not work. Developing your personality means that you need to make that extra effort to be there.
While expressing yourself your gait and posture is important. Work in front of the mirror and understand much about the way you keep your hands or move your head. Expressing with eyes can be practiced. All this comes in real picture when we present our skills in front of a wide audience. Interview for jobs are 50% of your body language. A person can convey a negative image with the sprawl or fidgeting with his hands. Habits have to be changed and this transformation has to be a conscious effort.

It is true that with experience, good communication skills and a wide vocabulary the personality of a person can be enhanced. People at the top continuously nurture new skills and learn things that are not in their field. This is basically to erase any kind of fear that will prevent them from being successful. The right way to learn English speaking is to first develop a good personality. Again the effort initially can be a practiced one. Invest in good clothes and footwear. Learn to sit upright and be attentive during a class session.

Though the course may be on the elementary level, it is good to learn from other sources too. Especially the grammar part in terms of plural, nouns and verbs forms the basic part of the course. If you have a good grammar book with exercises, learn from the same. Though speaking English comes with practice, do not rely to always have an audience. Conduct yourself with lot of earnest attitude and devise a program that helps you stay focused. 
Emotional balance has to be displayed in all means of communication. Be perfect in your grooming as it immediately reflects your taste and zest for life. Develop positive body language skills, learn about dinner etiquettes and understand other areas which are new to you. Have a balance in work and play which is essential for living life. Make time for friends and family.

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